Missed you, blogosphere.

Wow. So in the past month, I've hardly had a moment to myself. I'm exhausted, to say the least. I started not one, but two jobs, worked the Women's College World Series and the Big 12 Baseball championship, and finished up my second-to-last semester of college.

I haven't had a chance to do much of anything. Also, I've completely re-built my resume, or at least started to. I'm almost done, I promise. At least 3/4 of it is finished!

I started looking at Advertising agencies in London, or England in general. It's been as good as my travel-obsessed self can get right now. The good news is the 15th is my first day off. The bad news? I'm probably going to sleep the entire two days of that weekend just to get my energy up.

Officially, my blogging class has ended. This leaves me at a weird fork in the road. I can keep blogging or I can stop. To be honest, if things keep up like they have lately, I won't be posting often. But then again, I've found some pretty amazing people through blogging, and I don't want to give that up.

If you guys haven't checked out some of the people I'm obsessed with, I'm sorry. Your life sucks. Here's some great people in the blogosphere.

• Emily
• Sarah (With an H)
• Sara (No H)

Well, sorry for the really horrible blog post. If you read it, you get an extra gold star. I'm actually going to bed now, considering I woke up at 6am today.

Oklahoma Strong

I've said it before, and I'll say it again. I'm so incredibly proud of my home. So much tragedy in a short period of time. It's being described as the worst tornado in history. The devastation has been compared to the aftermath of an atomic bomb.

Houses, elementary schools, banks, businesses... All flattened. I have one friend who was in the midst of the worst part, seeking shelter in the basement of a bank. She wasn't allowed out until the police arrived, helping to clear the rubble so that everyone could escape. She told me at one point that she could hear the tornado.

The amount of children who will not be home tonight with their families astounds me. We've always had tornado drills in school, teachers making sure we were prepared. Lock downs, sirens, warning signs are so familiar to us from such young ages. Yet, in a single moment, it can all go from drill to reality. Anyone who didn't cry upon hearing that seven bodies of children were discovered in the rubble of Plaza Towers Elementary School, hearing that they drowned in the middle of that tragic tornado, seriously makes me worry. It's devastating, but in the midst of all that madness, a light of hope.

The parents of children who were unaccounted for, standing just a short way from the rubble proved exactly what I've always known to be true. A small dog discovered alive met with cheers from the adults who wait to claim bodies that are most likely no longer filled with life. The example of the human spirit astounds me, stops me in my tracks.

West Virginia University's baseball team is in town to play in the Big 12 Baseball Tournament, and upon hearing of the devastation, immediately springs into action. They're turned away when they try to enter Moore, but that doesn't stop them. The men, coaches and players alike, head to Walmart to purchase much-needed supplies for those affected.

No matter where you look, no matter how devastated it may seem, there's little things to remind you that we're not alone. We may be humans, we may not always be perfect, but in times of need, we step up. I'm not sure exactly how I'll be getting involved, but I can promise you, we're in for some really great examples of love, compassion, and hope.

Stay safe. Most importantly, give your family a hug. Tell them you love them. Don't forget to look for the small signs of life out there, folks. We're going to be just fine.

"The spirit of this city and this nation will not be defeated; our deeply rooted faith sustains us." - OKC Memorial

Update (10:44pm): The death toll has reached 51. 20 of them are children. I'm devastated and emotionally drained.

Blast from the Past

This past week has been almost bizarre. I've bumped in to or heard from three people I genuinely never expected to see or hear from again. I live in a decent-sized town so it's not really surprising on all three counts, but two of them really shocked me.

The first one was my ex-best friend, Sam. She and I were friends for three and a half years. We ended our friendship just a couple months before graduation. It's still so weird to look back at the yearbook and see the Senior Ad our parents bought for us. I spent every spare moment I had with Sam. She basically is the main reason I stopped letting people walk all over me. I was mentally and emotionally abused by her in more ways than I can describe. Let's just say she taught me exactly what not to look for in friends. I bumped into her at Walmart and it was the weirdest and most awkward conversation I've been in. I'm glad it lasted only a few seconds.

The second person I've heard from was this guy I used to work with, John. He texted me asking if I'd graduated this weekend, and I informed him that I'll be graduating in December. We texted back and forth for a while, and apparently he wants to have lunch with me sometime in a couple weeks. Did I mention that I had a huge crush on him? Or that we went on a three day trip to Chicago together to see Paul McCartney at Wrigley? Oh, I guess I forgot to add that. My bad.

Finally, tonight's surprise. I walked into the massage place my mom so graciously pays for me to visit on occasion. She had the time slot before me, so she informed me that I'd know my masseuse for the evening. It's a girl I used to play softball with who's a few years younger than me and now pregnant. (For the record, I've got nothing against people getting pregnant when they're prepared, but hers was far from planned.)

I'm not saying anything against these people personally, but it's pretty clear that two of the three aren't driven to make it past the lives they have. One of them was planning on law school, and currently balancing a job at Devon with night classes. One of them got fired as a manager at Arby's and had to bus tables on the overnight shift at IHOP. I'm kind of wondering what people think when they bump in to me, though.

I've always hated how it sounds when I answer people's inquiries. "I'm going to school, still. My degree is in advertising. I don't know exactly what I want to do, yet." I'm in waiting, I guess. Regardless, I don't mind being in waiting as long as I don't become complacent. I'm getting out of here someday very soon. It's going to be awesome when I do, and I just really hope I stop bumping in to people I used to know for a bit.

I'm Miserable At Letting Go.

I hate running in to old friends. Especially the ones I was closest to. The worst part is I can name every single best friend I've ever had, and I can tell you exactly why we're not friends anymore.

You know how snakes shed their skin? I have this weird thing where ever few years, I shed the people around me. Whether it's by my choice, their decision, or a mutual parting due to an argument, I've had my fair share of goodbyes.

A good chunk of the people I've been friends with took advantage of me. From controlling me, to only having me around when they wanted, to mentally abusing me. It's not exactly the best way to discuss old friends, sure, but it's the truth. Ultimately, the pain that comes out of these ended friendships can't be blamed on the girls who I thought were my best friend, but rather on me.

I've always had trouble letting go. When someone hurts me, the logical thing to do is to forgive, to forget, and to cut the ties. Me? I tend to go with the "Let me cause myself as much emotional pain as possible by constantly checking on that person via whatever social media site available at the time for as long as I possibly can" method. It's pretty sad, actually.

But today, even when I ran into my ex-best friend from high school, I slipped into the same weird mindset of worrying about her. Honestly, she was kind of rude. She also looked like crap, whereas I have found myself in a great place lately. A few months back, she was on Jerry Springer. I'm graduating college in December. She didn't even last two semesters. I'm not saying these things to prove to myself, or anyone else, that I'm better off than her. I'm saying that I'm better off than the person she knew.

In the past six months, I've changed a lot. I've discovered more about myself and more about my dreams, desires, and goals than I ever knew. It's not up to anyone else to define me. I'm over all of that. What matters now is how happy I make myself, not how happy someone else lets me be.

I'm proud of the person I've become. I'm not always proud of the person I was, but I'm proud of how I took the blows, adapted and learned. I'm on my way to greatness, folks.

It's Getting Hot In Here.

Perhaps the best quote from Fahrenheit 451. My favorite, at least.

First, let me apologize for the horrible attempt at titling this post. Ray Bradbury would probably be ashamed.

Few books have withstood the test of time, and they're usually the ones that pop up in English classes across the country as required reading. I'll be the first to admit that if a teacher tells me to read a book as part of curriculum, I'm instantly determined to hate it. Such was the case with a lot of my peers, and to this day, most of them haven't given these books a second chance. I guess I'm a rarity.

I don't remember my feelings the first time I read Fahrenheit 451 by Ray Bradbury, but I can tell you it was nothing like what I feel for the book today. The thing about this book is that it's got some incredible quotes tucked inside it's covers. The world that the author creates is futuristic, but more than anything, realistic to the kind of society we're seeing shape right before our own eyes. 

It's not the easiest to understand, but if you keep an open mind and really pay attention, Ray Bradbury can blow you away. His quotes fit perfectly into the middle of the book, slipping almost unnoticed unless you're paying just enough attention. 

I've read it five times now and I can't help but grab a highlighter each time I crack it open again, hoping to stumble into another beautiful example of the true power of words. Here's a list of some of my favorite quotes from the book:

• "We begin by beginning."
• "You don't stay for nothing."
• "I just want someone to hear what I have to say. And maybe, if I talk long enough, it'll make sense."
• "I sit here and know I'm alive."
• "That's the good part of dying; when you've got nothing to lose, you run any risk you want."
• "You're afraid of making mistakes. Don't be. Mistakes can be profited by."

Anyway, I hope you're open to the idea of giving those classics your teachers shoved down your throat another chance.

Blogspiration: Royce Young of DailyThunder.com

Royce Young is the man behind the DailyThunder.com blog, a project he started five years ago in his final semester of college that has since become his job. He’s 27 now, married to an elementary school teacher and working full-time both as a blogger independently and as a sportswriter at CBSSports.com. On Twitter, Royce has over 27,000 followers. His website gets an average of one million page views per month, with 100,000 unique visitors. Royce lives in Oklahoma City, and with the combination of both his blog and CBSSports, he makes enough money to make this his career.

Royce’s blog is unique because he started it simply to put his thoughts down somewhere, but has since developed into his own brand. “I had decided pretty much in my last semester of school that I wasn’t going to be a semester,” Royce said. “But I missed writing and more than anything, missed putting my thoughts an opinions in one convenient place.” He is the sole writer at DailyThunder, commenting on each and every game the OKC Thunder plays in, both home and away. He also covers various other things, such as trades, interviews players do, and how other teams will make or break the Thunder.

Royce blends the traditional beat coverage of a team with fan-blogging. He isn’t afraid to publicize that he’s a Thunder fan, something that most traditional media frowns upon. Being passionate about the team allows him to connect with fans because they share the same favorite players, but he also has no trouble calling the team or individuals out for doing something he thinks is wrong. Royce gets to talk to players and coaches on a regular basis, which gives his fans the feeling of an everyday fan getting one-on-one time with Kevin Durant.

Daily Thunder, being run by a single person, has a single voice. Normally, that’s great for a blog, but in the sports world, it can be dangerous. However, it has established Royce Young as a local celebrity in the minds of Thunder fans. Royce encourages people to blog about things they are passionate about. “People love to start blogs. Not everyone likes to continue writing them,” Royce said. If you find something you’re passionate about writing, you’ll continue to do so.

Royce’s biggest bit of advice is that a blogger needs to find their voice. “It’s kind of simple,” he explains, “find the style of writing you’re most comfortable with, and best at.” Royce recommends writing, and writing a lot, to develop your style. He says it’s almost embarrassing how many words he’s written over the last five years, but because of that, he’s improved a lot as a writer.

Diverse audience.

There's a lot of people from a lot of countries that have visited my blog. I'm actually kind of in shock. Granted, I know a handful of the people personally, both in the US and in Denmark. (We hosted a foreign exchange student from there last semester and so I feel the need to give her a shout out! HI EMMA!) But still, the rest are a mystery.

It's really wonderful how technology has given me a chance to connect with people across the world. From Twitter to Tumblr to Blogger, I've got this ability to communicate with people who may have never even set foot in America in their entire lifetime. Granted, I've never been to any of the countries in the world besides America and Mexico. At least not yet.

So if you're reading this and you're from a foreign country, feel free to drop me a line. I'm pretty friendly and I love hearing from people. I've actually got a bit of an obsession with pen pals, too. Oh, and thanks for stopping by my blog.